Bringing Joy to Older Adults During the Holidays
Lenette Hamm • December 12, 2024
The holiday season is a time of warmth, connection, and celebration. Yet for many older adults, especially those living in nursing homes, it can be a challenging period marked by feelings of isolation or nostalgia for past traditions. This year, let’s consider meaningful ways to bring joy to older adults and ensure they feel the love and care they deserve.
1. Reconnect Through Visits and Calls
Spending time with an older adult can make a world of difference. Whether it’s a quick phone call, a video chat, or an in-person visit, these moments remind them that they are loved and valued. For nursing home residents, a cheerful visit can brighten their day. Consider bringing a small gift, like a festive decoration or a framed photo, to personalize their space and evoke positive memories.
2. Create Shared Experiences
Holidays are built around shared traditions. Invite older adults to participate in activities like decorating cookies, crafting ornaments, or watching classic holiday movies. For nursing home residents, arrange group activities such as caroling or storytelling sessions where they can share their cherished memories.
3. Send Cards and Letters
Receiving a heartfelt card can lift spirits and foster connection. Encourage family, friends, and community groups to write holiday greetings to older adults. Nursing homes often welcome these initiatives, and some may have "adopt-a-resident" programs where you can brighten the holidays for someone without family nearby.
4. Offer Practical Help
Many older adults struggle with tasks that become harder as they age. Offer to help with holiday shopping, decorating their home, or preparing meals. If they live in a nursing home, consider donating time or resources to assist with facility-wide celebrations.
5. Celebrate Their Unique Traditions
Every person has unique holiday traditions, and honoring these can be deeply meaningful. Take the time to learn about what the holidays mean to them and incorporate those traditions into your celebrations. Perhaps they’d love to cook a special recipe, attend a religious service, or listen to specific songs that evoke cherished memories.
6. Share Comfort and Warmth
Sometimes, the simplest gestures mean the most. Bring cozy blankets, warm socks, or a favorite holiday treat. These small tokens can provide comfort and remind them of the joy the season brings.
Making the Holidays Bright
Helping older adults feel included and loved during the holidays is a gift that benefits everyone involved. Whether through time, thoughtful gestures, or community efforts, your kindness can create cherished memories and foster a sense of belonging. This holiday season, let’s ensure no one feels forgotten. Together, we can make it a time of joy for all.

On March 19, 2026, a Washington Post article highlighted a recent Office of Inspector General for the Department of Health and Human Services investigation that brought renewed national attention to a troubling reality inside America’s nursing homes: powerful antipsychotic drugs are being used not as treatment, but as control. The report found that some facilities are misdiagnosing residents with schizophrenia to justify prescribing antipsychotic medications. These drugs are often not approved for people with dementia and carry serious risks, including falls, strokes, and even death. In many cases, these medications are used to manage behaviors that are not dangerous, such as calling out, resisting care, or expressing distress. The result is what advocates have long warned about: the use of chemical restraints to sedate residents for staff convenience. A National Problem Decades in the Making The misuse of antipsychotic drugs in long-term care has been documented for years. In April 2024, KABC highlighted this issue in our advocacy work, noting that hundreds of thousands of nursing home residents nationwide are given antipsychotic medications, often without appropriate clinical justification. These drugs carry an FDA “black box” warning for use in older adults with dementia due to an increased risk of death. Federal efforts over the past decade have aimed to reduce unnecessary use, yet as of early 2026, approximately 17% of long-stay nursing home residents in the United States are still receiving antipsychotic medications. At the same time, recent federal policy discussions in March 2026 have raised concerns among advocates that loosening reporting requirements could reverse progress made in reducing inappropriate use. Kansas Is Not Immune This issue hits close to home. In 2022, the Kansas Legislature’s Senior Care Task Force released a report to the 2023 Legislature identifying the administration of antipsychotic medications and protections against abuse and neglect as critical areas for reform. The Task Force emphasized that these medications could have serious and even fatal consequences for older adults, particularly when used inappropriately. Advocates in Kansas have reported that up to 26% of nursing home residents, and nearly 40% of those with dementia, have been prescribed antipsychotic medications in recent years, despite well-documented risks. While some facilities have made progress, reductions in use have stalled in recent years, raising concerns that systemic issues remain unresolved. Why It Happens At its core, the misuse of antipsychotic drugs is often a symptom of deeper systemic problems, many of which have been exacerbated since the COVID-19 pandemic. Experts and investigators point to: Chronic understaffing, intensified since 2020 Lack of training in dementia care Pressure to manage behaviors quickly Lack of person-centered practices in care Gaps in oversight and accountability Non-drug approaches, like personalized care, meaningful activities, and addressing unmet needs, are widely recognized as best practice. But they require time, staffing, and resources that many facilities continue to lack in 2026. When those supports are missing, medication restraint becomes the default. What Proper Care Should Look Like Clinical guidance has long been clear, and yet remains unchanged in 2026. Antipsychotic medications should be a last resort, used only when: Non-drug interventions have failed The resident poses a risk to themselves or others The benefits outweigh the serious risks Even then, they should be used cautiously, closely monitored, and regularly reevaluated. The Path Forward for Kansas Kansas has an opportunity, and an obligation, to act. Building on the 2022 Senior Care Task Force recommendations, advocates continue in 2025–2026 to call for: Expanded access to geriatric mental health specialists Stronger oversight and enforcement Improved training in dementia and person-centered care Greater transparency for residents and families Meaningful solutions to the ongoing staffing crisis At its heart, this is about dignity. Older adults in Kansas adult care homes deserve care that respects their humanity, not treatment that silences it.





