5 Questions to Ask When Choosing a Long-Term Care Facility

May 21, 2025

Choosing a long-term care facility for yourself or a loved one is one of the most important decisions you can make. Beyond basic safety and cleanliness, the right facility should support a person’s independence, dignity, and overall quality of life. To help you make an informed choice, here are five essential questions to ask, along with key follow-ups that can give you a deeper sense of what daily life will be like at the facility.


1. How does the facility support independence and person-centered care?

Person-centered care means that residents are active participants in their care and daily routines. Ask:


  • Can residents choose when to wake up and go to bed?
  • Are meals and activities tailored to individual preferences?
  • Is there flexibility for “early birds” and “night owls”?


Look for signs that staff respect residents’ individuality—such as accommodating dietary preferences and encouraging participation in meaningful activities.


2. What medical and rehabilitation services are available on-site?

Quality care goes beyond assistance with daily activities. Ask about:


  • Access to hospice care and pain management
  • Availability of wound care and ostomy specialists
  • In-house physical, occupational, speech, and mental health therapies
  • Staffing levels—how many nurses and aides are on duty at different times of day?


These services can have a major impact on recovery, mobility, and comfort.


3. What is the atmosphere like during meals and activities?

Daily life should be engaging and social. Ask to observe a meal or an activity session. Consider:


  • Are residents out of their rooms and interacting with others?
  • Do meals look appetizing and meet special dietary needs?
  • Is assistance with eating provided promptly and respectfully?


Also ask about field trips, volunteer involvement, and whether there is an active activities room or calendar of events.


4. What do current residents and families say about their experience?

Talking to those already living in or visiting the facility can give you valuable insight. Ask residents:


  • Do staff respond quickly when you call for help?
  • Do you enjoy your meals and feel your privacy is respected?
  • Are you involved in decisions about your care?


Ask families:

  • Are you promptly notified of any accidents or health changes?
  • Do you feel comfortable raising concerns?
  • Is there a Family Council and does the facility listen to it?


5. How transparent and responsive is the administration?

A responsive leadership team is key to resolving issues and maintaining quality. When meeting with the Administrator or Director of Nursing, ask:


  • How do you handle complaints?
  • How are staff trained and how long do they typically stay?
  • What’s your policy on resident rights, such as refusing treatment?


You can also ask to review the admission contract, learn about costs and refund policies, and understand how care decisions are made if the resident is unable to speak for themselves.


Want more questions to ask?

Visit our full guide: Is This the Nursing Home to Choose?



It includes detailed sections on services, nursing care, residents' rights, and conversations to have with administrators, staff, and families.


At Kansas Advocates for Better Care, we believe everyone deserves compassionate, dignified, and person-centered long-term care. Asking the right questions is the first step to getting it.


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